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Lindsay Allison/Guest Blogger The woman I was with after the news broke that Sarah Palin was announced as McCain’s running mate responded, “She can’t do that. Who’s going to take care of her kids?” “Would you say that if she were a man?” I asked. “Of course not. But she’s a mother.” Unfortunately, this woman’s thoughts are clearly widespread in a campaign where Sarah Palin’s gender has become an important issue. In fact, Palin has made such a splash in the media that she has arguably overshadowed her running mate. And rather than focus on the glass ceiling she is breaking by stepping onto the national stage and campaigning for vice president, people have been coming out en masse and attacking her. Shall we begin with the “Abort Sarah Palin” bumper stickers? The jabs at her breast-feeding? Her teenage daughter’s pregnancy? The question of whether she is abandoning her down-syndrome infant by campaigning for office?
Shortly after Palin was announced as the vice presidential nominee, videos began to surface of her when she was a beauty pageant contestant in 1984. The question that was being raised about Palin with these videos seemed to be this: can a former beauty pageant contestant really run our country? The answer every woman in America should be giving is: hell yes. In a country where women balance demanding jobs, families, and manicures, the question of whether or not brains and beauty can co-exist should be archaic and irrelevant. Women have worked long and hard to prove that they are more than pretty faces. And although there are certainly more than a few dumb beauty pageant contestants, categorizing Sarah Palin as unqualified simply because she competed in Miss America is stereotypical and sexist. One only has to look as far as Katie Couric, Barbara Walters, or Megyn Kelly to know there are more than a few women who are beautiful and brainy. Ms. Palin has been heavily criticized for her pro-life stance. Many women have branded her as a traitor to their gender for this alone. No matter your thoughts on abortion, no woman should be criticized for making the choice to keep her child. Questioning why Palin didn’t have testing in order to determine whether or not to keep her down-syndrome child is a terrible suggestion of genetic selection. She should be commended for agreeing to the challenges and joys of a special needs child. In leaving this special needs child, along with her other children, in the care of her husband, another question has come to the surfaced: how could she abandon her children? This question has not been asked of Obama, McCain, or Biden. When a male is running for office, everyone assumes the children will be taken care of. When it is a female, she is accused of abandoning her children. Must women either be unmarried (i.e. Condoleezza Rice) or have grown children (i.e. Hillary Clinton) to run for a prestigious office? Is it still assumed that childcare falls on the mother? If so, our society is not as far along in women’s rights as I thought we were. Much has been made of Ms. Palin’s teenage daughter’s pregnancy. Seventy-four percent of teenager girls in the U.S. claim to be sexually active. Thirty-four percent of girls under twenty say they have been pregnant at least once. We live in a society where most teens are having sex, and one of the consequences of sex is pregnancy. Bristol Palin is not unusual nor are her actions her mother’s fault. Although most people want to fight against teenage pregnancy, Bristol Palin is seventeen not thirteen, and there is a big difference in those few years. As any mother of a seventeen year-old (or anyone who has ever been seventeen) knows, seventeen year-olds make their own decisions. Judging Palin for her daughter’s actions seems unfair. Again, I doubt if Bill Clinton would have come under as much scrutiny if Chelsea had gotten pregnant during his campaigns or time in office. And now the worst sexism of all has surfaced. Larry Flynt is making a Hustler porn called “Nailin Paylin.” That’s right; a look-alike of the vice-presidential nominee is starring in a new porn where a group of drunk Russians have their tank break down in front of Ms. Paylin’s house. And if it isn’t bad enough to be jesting about Palin in a porn, there is a reported three-way sex scene between Palin, Condoleezza Rice, and Hillary Clinton. This is shocking. Anyone for Ridin Biden starring Biden, McCain, and Obama? I didn’t think so. This movie is clearly starring these three women only because they are women. We should be disgusted and outraged at this. Agree with their politics or not, Palin, Rice, and Clinton have made leaps and bounds for women in the political sphere. They are women who should be respected not degraded and objectified. Whether or not we elect Obama, everyone should respect the steps he has made for the black community by running such a tight race for president. And whether or not we elect with Palin, everyone should respect the steps she has made for women by getting this close to the White House.
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Whilst her choice to keep her child is indeed commendable, I don't agree with her stance of no abortion in cases of rape or incest. And great for Bristol--but let's not forget that Sarah is the one who preaches abstinence as birth control.
Last but not least, let's not ignore the hypocrisy here. If one of Obama's daughters were in Bristol's place, the outcry from the right would be overwhelming, and I doubt that he would be in the running.